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That is one of the most hilarious viral blow ups I have ever read. And this evening I'm (hopefully) sleeping with a second man/third person this week before doing my younger kids birthday over the weekend. Haters are losers.

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What we do in life is up to us. Ignore the narrow minded idiots . We are CNM also for 20 years. We have lived our fantasy’s and love the lifestyle. Still together and in love.

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Dec 6, 2023Liked by Sarah Stroh

Sending love and appreciation to you. That must be tough having to deal with such attacks. I admire your strength and resilience, but it must have shaken your nervous system up for a while! Thank you for being you, for being audacious, and putting yourself out here and risking getting in the firing line πŸ™πŸ» Wishing you and Flo and your baby an amazing journeyπŸ’šπŸ’œ

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Dec 6, 2023Liked by Sarah Stroh

Wishing you the best for your babies birth and for the health of both of you. may this be time of discovery for you, your partner and your newborn. most importantly don't fret about the others and their comments they have their own issues and only see you as an escape from their own lives.

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How are you managing a few months in? It’s a haze of sleepless nights and endless hours of baby care.

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You are strong and beautiful and your body is amazing. It’s cooking a new human! Please also give yourself grace and remember that your hormones are not always your friend. Emotions hit differently during pregnancy and a while afterwards. Things like all those people’s misunderstanding and animosity that would be easier to shake off, now it can land hard. I remember not even realizing how much the hormones had me until much later.

You’re in the home stretch. Good luck with the birth, post-partum, enjoying that delicious newborn and be as kind to yourself as you would be to any new mom adjusting to the most life-changing and amazing thing ever.

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Thank you so much for this! I recently came across your substack and have appreciated your openness and honesty, especially as someone who finds herself newly in a poly construct and has no blueprint for how to navigate all its complexities. Thank you!

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Well I read this and had to go watch the video, its gorgeous, good for you. I completely sympathise with your pain over the haters. It’s tough being a pioneer, like being the first born. You are brave and doing an amazing job, so inspiring. I’d like to say you will get the recognition you deserve in time but sadly its more likely that there will be slow progress in society until some celebrity will feel safe enough to dance as you have done and that will be the ironic license the haters will need to move forward. I pride myself on spotting the real change agents and shape shifters, they are so much more interesting. Best of luck with your new baby adventure, it is tough but mostly I found an emotional challenge to I can see that all the emotional work and development you have done for yourself will serve you very well.

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