When your boundaries don't align with who you want to be

In non-monogamy and beyond

I posted a video on Instagram a few weeks ago which triggered a lot of people. And watching it again recently, I have to say it triggered me too.

In the video, I talk about how before a trip to Spain in Flo’s van this past Spring, he asked me how I would feel if he were to meet up with an old flame of his from when he had studied abroad there.

The two of …