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Jan 3·edited Jan 19Liked by Sarah Stroh

Your courage to be vulnerable in this post is damn commendable.

Nothing in life is “forever” although sometimes it feels so. Remember that during babies crying jags or colic.

Do the best you can to live within the moment and treasure them. Monogamy or non monogamy aside. You will figure it out together.

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Jan 13Liked by Sarah Stroh

Good luck and enjoy all the new moments. It’s amazing, exhausting and exhilarating! Not one single aspect of your life remains unchanged but it keeps changing. Babies grow so fast and you will have lots of choices as you move forward. It’s all a phase so enjoy each one as it comes.

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Jan 3Liked by Sarah Stroh

Another beautifully written post, Sarah. Thank you, as always, for sharing so openly and authentically.

I think we definitely have phases in our lives.

My husband and I run a Meetup for "mature poly" folks. We have seen quite a few people come to ethical non-monogamy after their kids are older, or in the empty nest stage of life. Many are feeling free to fully be themselves for the first time in their lives.

Wishing you a smooth last few weeks of pregnancy, and the smooth delivery of a healthy baby!

My birthday is January 16th - so maybe your sweet babe and I will share a birthday!

That would be so cool!

P.S. I love hearing in your voice the love that you and Flo share so strongly!

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