When to put love over your dreams?

I’ve got a poly fantasy

I have a dream.

Of living in a house in a beautiful house in California or the Portuguese coast, with multiple families together, possibly having children with more than one person.

Building a poly community and living happily ever after.

I think I could achieve that dream. I could go for it and it would be awesome. But my partner Flo is not so into it. He’s not so into polyamory in general. So what do I do now? Do I just give up on it?

Here I discuss this dilemma in more detail.

My poly fantasy

In other news

I am currently putting together an online course around sex. And in order to create something actually useful, I’m trying to learn as much as I can from you all about what keeps you up at night.

If anyone would be up to chat about it (20-30 minutes over zoom or a call) please respond to this email by saying: “yes!” 

Thanks, everyone,

P.S. I forgot to hit send on my email last week (doh!) so if you want to read it, it’s here.



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