When sex is sacred

And questioning the implicit hierarchy

I was at dinner the other day with a friend and two of his friends, Clara and Fred, a couple who were visiting from Australia.

Over Korean noodles, Fred mentioned he liked my content on Instagram, so we started talking about non-monogamy. Eventually, I asked the couple: Are you monogamous? 

They said, “Yes” and then Clara went on to explain why (which I a…