When it’s hard to enjoy “stuff” with someone else

it's hit or miss

With Eric, the man I’ve been dating the last months alongside my primary partner Flo, it’s been very hit or miss. Either the sex is incredible or it really falls flat in an extreme way.

And I think I know why.

See, I realized that when the sex is really good, it’s often been after a night of drinking and/or smoking and/or doing other stuff. Whereas when i…