Have you ever played down your non-monogamy?

When you're a parent, they all expect monogamy...

A little while back, I was at a friend’s place for dinner and after hearing what I did for a living, one of his friends pulled me aside and said, “You and your partner — are you still non-monogamous, now that you have a kid?” As she asked the question, she was shaking her head slightly with almost concern in her face. 

It was clear how she expected me to…