It's here
The book is real.
Today Monogamaybe? is out in the world. You can now hold it. Download it to your kindle. Or hear it on audiobook.
People often ask me how long it took to write this. If we’re counting how long the first draft took, it was only six months.
But in some ways, I’ve been writing this book for almost 20 years. From that first ever “real” relationship I had, where something just felt off.
To feeling like maybe there’s something wrong with me.
To realizing there’s a way of relating that just fits better and I can actually go for that.
And all the messy moments in between.
This book is for anyone who’s ever felt the gap between what they were taught a relationship should look like and what they actually want.
Whether that means being open, polyamorous, or staying monogamous in a more honest way.
If you’ve been reading me here for a while, you may be familiar with some of the stories I tell, but you’ll also find the parts I’ve never written about publicly before.
If you read it, I’d be so grateful for a review wherever you buy it. Early reviews matter more than almost anything else for a book like this.
Thank you for being here for all of it.
What else?
DATE CHANGE: Berlin! I’m celebrating in person next Thursday 30-07
A reading, a talk, hard questions, and empanadas at Café LULO. Free, but space is limited.
Also, if you missed last Tuesday’s Advice Room, the recording is up for paid subscribers — more info here.
