I still haven’t gotten laid

Is it self-sabotage?

So I went on an (I don’t know…seventh?) date with Ludo last week. We had dinner and then had cocktails somewhere. And then I asked him if he wanted to come back to my place. 

And drumroll, please…He said no!

Why?

Well, he had some personal stuff going on and he felt that he should go back home that night to his partner.

He also mentioned he liked the whole,…