Are you taking the low road to orgasm?

If you need to ask, you probably have your answer

Does sex ever feel like work?

Like there’s a job to do?

Despite my best efforts, the answer for me is sometimes yes.

I’m enjoying myself and then I think, “alright time to get this over with.” How do I come in some reasonable amount of time? And as soon as I ask that question, I know I have entered what sex therapist Stephen Snyder calls: