"An open relationship won't work when you have kids."

The most common assumptions about non-monogamy debunked!

When I tell people I’m in an open relationship, the same questions and concerns come up again and again.

One is some version of: Why do non-monogamous people feel having sex is worth hurting their partners?

Or this: Non-monogamy can’t work when you have children. What will you do then? (This comes up a lot).

Thankfully, I am well-prepared now to answer all…