I never really told you about meeting my metamour, Kathryn. So here it is!
Flo, she and I met for coffee at a cafe in the most hipster part of Berlin a few weeks back.
And my first first first impression from afar was that she was unimpressive, her hair put up loosely in a low ponytail, wearing an old tank top and flowy shorts.
But then once we actually sat down altogether, I could see the beauty in her, not just physical beauty but the beauty of her presence.
Fresh face, curly hair, big and mesmerizing eyes.
Ordering the coffee itself felt a bit awkward. Like normally on the line, I might grab Flo’s waist and put my arm around him. We might decide to share two things and then one of us would offer to pay.
But this time, I had to think — wait, Flo has a romantic relationship of some sort with BOTH of us so I don’t want to act like he and I are together and she is the friend on the side.
I had to realize: no, we’re all in this together. Today, we are three free agents —three friends meeting.
(In the end, Flo treated both of us.)
We chatted and the convo went well — not any more awkward than meeting any given stranger might be. It turns out she’s a member of the tribe (a Jewish person by blood) like me! Which is quite a big coincidence in Europe. We’re also both into mediation (she more than I).
Beyond that, we’re quite different. She seems quite shy and introspective, and Flo has told me so much. Whereas I’m like the definition of an extrovert.
I wouldn’t see us becoming good friends let say.
But it was interesting to meet her and I see why Flo likes her. And I feel like I can empathize more with her now.
So I’m curious to see if him going out with her again because easier somehow because of this.
TBD.
This week I talk about how tantra and several other experiences have made me more confident in myself. Check it:
5 Experiences Outside of Sex That Have Made Me a Sexually Confident Woman
Having more sex is not the only thing that will build your confidence in the sack
xoxo,
Sarah